BEN:
- Ben lets me be lazy when I want/need to
- Ben buys great drinks and jewelry - Specifically, he buys white chocolate liqueur - YUM
- Ben's a great cook and never minds cooking
- Ben's a lot of fun to talk to
- Ben gives great hugs
- Ben appreciates that my career is important
- Ben doesn't mind my nutty opinions too much
- Ben reminds me that family and traditions are important too
- Ben makes all the service calls and deals with plumbers, electricians, and car stuff
- Ben doesn't add or subtract zeros in odd places
- Ben can both throw and catch
- Ben doesn't mind going back downstairs to make popcorn for me before a movie
For the record, white chocolate liqueur is really the best gift ever. Imagine white chocolate, in liquid form, with alcohol in it. That puts a smile on my face.